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Flipper (1996) IMDB rating: 4.90 Plot: Sandy Ricks is sent by his mom to Coral Key, a rustic island in the Florida keys, to spend the summer with his uncle Porter Ricks. Sandy dislikes everything about his new environment until a new friend comes into his life, a dolphin named Flipper, that brings uncle and nephew together and leads Sandy on the summer adventure of a lifetime.

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Actors: Wood Elijah,Hogan Paul,Banks Jonathan,Deacon Robert,Casella Mark,Halpin Luke,Kelley Bill,Fuchs Jason,Jones Mal,Crume Louis Seeger,Nolan Bill,Family,Adventure,

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What do you think is wrong with me, cause I can't figure it out?
I’m kind of embarrassed to ask this but frankly I don’t know what to anymore so I don’t care. Honestly maybe the best thing to do would be to ask normal people who can maybe relate? I have went to my doctor thinking I had some kind of sexual disease. But no I am perfectly clean and perfectly find. Other then this problem I have. I don’t know if its mental or something else. But maybe someone can help explain this to me.

Lately I just can’t get hard. Like I get semi hard but I can’t get to my full potential so to speak. I am 19 great health, 6′1 180 pounds. I have a muscular build. I have always been seen as an attractive guy. But my life has like flipped upside down. And my confidence with women is shot.

Basically for the longest time I was billed up as sex was the only thing I did right in a relationship. Like I would try to be a great guy, a loyal boyfriend and I was for the most part. But when it comes to getting whipped like most guys do. That just can’t be me. Like I don’t mind buying my girl a gift every once and a while. Or taking her out to dinner in stuff. But when it becomes all about that, I feel like I am being used. And I won’t buy ciggerates or alcohol for them. Although I have, I might not but I rarely do that stuff myself. I will drink a couple beers with my buddies thats it. I don’t understand why this chick needed to smoke so much and drink so much. She was 17 and shes hot her life couldn’t be that hard.

Anyway it got to the point where I knew she was using me lol. So when I tried to breakup with her, she broke up with me. And when I broke up with her I wanted to be the right way. So maybe we could come out friends because I really cared about her. Maybe I loved her I think I did. We did tell each other I love you for a little while. But it was more just a cute thing, and she usually only said it when we were having sex.

I found out quickly she was just staying for the sex because shortly after she broke up with me over the phone like an immature little girl. She said well I don’t want to date right now cause I don’t know what I want. She told me she had feelings for her other ex. But she still wanted to have sex with me because I’m great.

Put a long story short I never had sex with her again. She kept trying to come back. But it didn’t happen and now she is back with her other ex. And I haven’t even spoke to her since like the end of August. Problem is its like the middle of November now and shes always on my mind.

I know I am better off without her, but it seems like I can’t live without her either. I am a wreck, and I can’t get hard. That’s the one thing I always did right was get really hard. I could have 7 hours of sex in a row, and still be at full blast. I have been described as machine. But I can’t do it anymore. This is like a nightmare. I don’t know what could describe. But I am smaller, and I don’t get fully erect. I have not been fully hard in over a month.

The doctors say I am fine but I am clearly not. Someone please help me I am desperate. And I don’t need enlargement I was more then big enough before. But I don’t get there anymore and I am only 19. I’m broken…

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The emotional side of you is taking over the physical side, thus why you cannot go hard. When you are depressed (it has happened to me) it can become mind numbingly hard to have a real hard on because you are subconsciously not in the mood for it. I don’t believe that you have erectile dysfunction, so we will stick to the 99% probability that you need to become emotionally unattached from this girl. You are not broken, and are not any less of a man because some stupid slut used you. It happened to me so badly, that I sold everything I had and lived in my car for this girl, just for her to break up with me. Don’t masturbate for a long time, and don’t attempt sex with anyone for a while too, you just need time to heal the rest of the emotional scars that exist, whether subconsciously or not, from this girl. There will be a hotter girl, and she will rock your world. Take this time of healing to regain your stride and confidence back. When you feel ready, go out and be armed with your re-established confidence and your healthier emotional mindset.. and if anybody else who answers makes fun of this guy, go to hell and get a god damn life. Leave the answering of real problems to the gentleman who care about helping people.

I’m close to your age man, I am 21 yr old. I had some hard times sexually after me and the ex I mentioned above broke up. I wasn’t getting nearly as good of a hard on or orgasm as before. After taking some time off and regaining some confidence, the hookup sex was incredible and better than before. Just give it time my man, and all will be ok. Put the "sex machine" away for a rest, while you make emotional repairs. Good luck and feel better about yourself.
hOtToM3rd | Nov 19, 2009

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I feel so sorry for you, but all I can say is that I hope you find love with another girl, there are some out there that won’t mind if you can’t get hard
Neex | Nov 19, 2009