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Happily N’Ever After 2 (2009)
IMDB rating: 3.80
Plot: An animated movie based upon the characters of a successful 2006 animation Happily N’Ever After.
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Directors: Gordon Steven E.
Actors: Brewster Kelly,Erholtz Doug,Lodge David,Sullivan Jim,Thornton Kirk,Animation,Adventure,Family,
Please I need ur Help should i marry ths man?
I have a situation I’ve been w this man for 5 yrs. I was truly, madly, n love with him until about 8 mo ago. We r planning 2 get married in 3 mo. I’m not attracted 2 him anymore, and i find myself feeling like this after i have spent years n a relationship and end up breaking up with them. We have disgreements now more than ever but i think its becuz i feel like i fellout of love w him an jus settling. I’m 33yrs old and really want to be happily married. He is a good man and put me 1st at all cost. Is this just a phase? Can the love come back if i marry him? Preparations 4 this wedding makes me nausea. Is it me? Ive ruined several relationships w good men bcuz i fall out of love with them once i really get to know them. The littlelest thing turn me off completely and i never go back to these men after i start feeling like this. Should i call it off to see if the love comes back or mary him? I use to like his 2 kids from a previous marriage since i don’t like him, i don’t like them either. I know it sounds bad but i can’t help it. I don’t know what 2 do. Any mature advise would b appreciated. Thanx
If you are having those feelings and strong second thoughts then I don’t think it would be fair to him or yourself to go through with a marriage to him.
saved_by_grace | Dec 02, 2008
be sure to get a chicken and a mosse for a success
\good luck in math!
Sammy | Dec 02, 2008
without even reading the details i am gona say no u shouldnt based on the fact that ure having to ask!
Haribo | Dec 02, 2008
why would you marry him if you can write all of this about him?! no you shouldn’t marry him – you will be miserable – plus you will make everybody else miserable – plus you could very possibly screw up his kids – not fair to everybody – it’s alot easier to get out of a wedding than a marriage.
kim | Dec 02, 2008
Whoa!!! This is tough, because you definitely don’t want to marry him in this state, as it would probably lead to a miserable divorce, which is gonna be way worse! I know how hard and crazy this sounds, but if I were you I would take some very deep thought and consideration in HONESTLY telling him how you feel. If you really want to work this out with him, I would advise counseling, that counseling you go to before you get married. Find out the root of your problem, and the specific reasons why you might have fell out of love with him in the first place.
Marrying him is not gonna change how you feel, you should def. attempt to fix the problem BEFORE you get married. I know it’s gonna be hard, but my motto is:Honesty is always the best policy, even if it may not seem so at first!
P.Tony4Life | Dec 02, 2008
Why would you marry a guy that you don’t want to be with? Also you need to think of his kids; I’d call it off.
Kayleigh | Dec 02, 2008
It sound like you are really afraid to commit to a good man. What is that all about? Did something in your life change 8 months ago or is this just your typical pattern. I don’t think that you should gamble with this man’s life in the off chance that you get your feelings back. Neither he nor his children deserve that. They deserve a mom and a step mom who is crazy about them. If that is not you, you need to come clean and take this relationship no further.
Perhaps you need to do some soul searching either on you own or with a counselor to find out why you are unable to allow yourself you experience love to the fullest. Love and marriage is more that mushy feelings. It is a commitment to respect and cherish. You being annoyed by them is the opposite of what a woman to be married should have.
truly | Dec 02, 2008
fact 1:
you can not fall back in love wit some1 that u dont love anymore, ure brain just wont let it happen
fact 2:
if u still dont love him then having an empty marrage will not help
fact 3:
u might just have "cold feet" thts all
fact 4:
take a look at the guy for a second and ask ureself these questions
1. did u say u loved him first or did he say he loved u first
2. has he ever cheated, or did u ever suspect him of cheating
3. what made u fall in love wit this guy
4. do u think that u can be able to maintain a healthy relationship wit this guy
5. what made u not love him anymore
6. what is one of the best things that attracts this guy to you
if u dont think tht u can have a healthy relationship wit this guy or u just "fell outta love" then dont do it
if u decide not to go through wit it then u start to fall in love wit him again just remember tht this guy cant waste his time chasing u in circles to make u love him, once its done its done, so dont go chasing him if u dont want to marry him, becaus eit will just break his heart even more
Lor Lor | Dec 02, 2008
Don’t marry him, then. Try and deal with your current situation now. Later– you can concentrate on the future.
GREG B | Dec 02, 2008
If you are even having to post this, don’t marry him. You are having doubts and while its normal to have cold feet, you have doubts. You don’t like him anymore! You are not attracted to him, you don’t like his kids…WHY would you marry someone you don’t even like???
I have been through a divorce and its very expensive. Do yourself and him a favor and call off the wedding now. Its still not too late.
Kim | Dec 02, 2008
Hun i wouldn’t marry him just to get married cuz then u both will be unhappy if you honestly care for him you should break it off befire you both get hurt. if you fallout of love with someone its because you’ve never loved him like you thought.
Mandi L | Dec 02, 2008
No, this goes beyond the normal jitters and you can’t expect the marriage to fix it. Take your time. Don’t let anyone else pressure you into it either.
Christie B | Dec 02, 2008
Any issues you have with him will be multiplied and magnified after years of marriage. Never marry someone your not attracted to also. You said you want to be happily married right? You have to change your expectations. You wont find a perfect person. When you come to realize this and except it, maybe then you will be ready to marry.
You just are NOT the type of person that should get married. Not now anyway. Good luck.
azjack68 | Dec 02, 2008
Have you been to counseling? try it?
Caramel22 | Dec 02, 2008
I think you do fall out of love to easily and if you don’t stop your going to find yourself alone without love because this man love you and you might never find another man that treats you good and put you 1st at all cost. I would love to marry a man like that
CHIHUAHUA | Dec 02, 2008
Either work on your relationship or break up with him. But whatever you do, do NOT marry him when you feel this way! Your relationship shows all the signs of a relationship that is dying, and a relationship like this does not just bounce back on your own once you’re married. If anything, marriage makes it worse as you feel "stuck" in the relationship. If there is any hope for the relationship, it will take a lot of attention and effort to bring back the romance. It won’t just happen on it’s own, and the longer you let these feelings go on, the harder it is fix things later on.
Sage | Dec 02, 2008
Maybe you just got cold feet.
Maybe you really don’t love him.
If you’re having second thoughts on this marriage, you should call it off. At least ask for some time to think about it, some time for yourself.
Relationships can get frustrating after a few years, I should know. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years based on many problems we were having… A few weeks ago, I regreted this decision, because I realized we could’ve worked things out.
But getting married is too serious to ignore what you’re felling right now.
You shouldn’t marry him at the moment. Try to get some time to think.
Amanda | Dec 02, 2008
You are asking for "mature advice" but are you mature enough yourself to accept it? You are 33 years old and want to be happily married. Those are your words. It sounds like you have a goal of "being married" and with that attitude, you will never find true love. I also think that you are confusing "passionate, falling in love" emotions with real love and affection and respect. True loves grows and the passionate stuff ebbs and flows in cycles. I’ve been married over 30 years and there were a couple of brief periods when I would wonder if I was still in love, or if should stay married. And about every 5 or 6 years there are periods when it seems like a switch gets tuned on and all of a sudden we can’t keep our hands off each other. After we reached 20 years, we found a very romantic, deeply-connected relationship had formed and it is rock solid. I get weak in the knees when I see his car pull into the driveway. He phones me every day from work to tell me he loves me and ask what i’m doing. But – there is a difference between you and me. I thought I preferred to stay single and then I found this man and fell in love. You, on the other hand, are determined to be married and are possibly overlooking love to find you. Sit down and write out a couple of lists – good things about him and your life, and bad things. Consider the losers that are out there. Consider your age and track record with men. I’m not suggesting that you "settle" if you aren’t happy but I am suggesting that perhaps you don’t realize that you’ve already got what you are looking for. But, wow!- if you are planning a wedding and say that you actually "don’t like him" or his kids, I’m thinking you should do the guy a favor and cut him loose!!
Wifeforlife | Dec 02, 2008
You don’t sound like the marrying type. If you don’t love him then don’t marry him. This sounds like you have some serious commitment issues, maybe you should talk to a professional.
sunpixielive | Dec 02, 2008
